Sunday, February 14, 2010

Missed You Bro...Exactly 2yrs 1month & 25days


Rest In Peace my very own Bro Engr. Nosakhare Ikponmwonsa Usuanlele.Its been over 2years you left us on this earth to meet up with God.I know you are in heaven chilling because you accepted Christ as your Lord and personal saviour so many years ago.Everyone called you "Father" because of the way you cared and loved everyone around you.Father you really acted like a Father for real.
Anytime I remember back in the days when you always make sure I'm the best in school and I know exactly what I'm doing in life I just want to cry but even if I cry its not going to bring you back,I don't worry because I know you are in a better place and smiling because your boy is doing very wonderful and you would forever be proud of me.You still remain my best friend because you have always been there for me.You are the only one I was very free with to share anything with because of the love and care you had for me.
I have always wanted to start my own blog because I have been inspired by your blog http://www.nosagod.blogspot.com/ Every time I keep going there to read your wonderful write ups,I always wish you are still around to witness me blogging and also correct some errors that I would make because no one is perfect and you know I'm not the type that write up articles...lol

We are in February already in 2010 and its going to be my 3rd birthday without you on the 18th.I don't know what to do on that day because its never been a good experience since you went to meet the Lord.I was already used to talking to you or been with you on that day.Your call is always the first I receive on that day and I missed all the prayers,advice and encouragement I always get from you.I cant just question God if not maybe I would have asked Him Why did this happen?...But God knows best and all is well !!!

The very day it occurred,I was called on the phone and the phone fell down from my hand,I busted into tears not knowing that you had left a message that "we shouldn't cry and we shouldn't take it like a big lost because you are going to meet the Lord in heaven" and you prayed until you left.Bro it was like a blow to our face because we never expected it at all.

It really hurt me so much because I landed Nigeria 2days before that day for the Christmas holiday and we spoke the day I left and you advised me on alot of things not knowing that was the last day I would talk to you.Though Christmas still went well but the holiday wasn't called for because the next plan was for your funeral.We would forever miss and love you.
The day you went 6feet was a day of celebration because we celebrated your life.The life you lived on this earth was a very perfect one because you touched the lives of so many.The crowd that came out that day and alot of people came in from Europe,Canada,America and every other part of the World.After we left the Church service,heading to your final rest,i looked back on the cars(Convoy) following you just to go pay their last respect,I was amazed because in my whole life i havn't seen that kind of crowed for a young person's funeral before.Even if everyone started crying because they missed you but I was encouraged by your kind of life and said "I wish everyone in this world could live exactly the kind of life you lived". Even if I almost followed you into the grave but that is very much understood.

I want to use this opportunity to thank those that came out to the funeral even if we couldn't call everyone to thank them especially friends and family that came from outside the Country.If I really keep talking about you bro I think this page wouldn't be enough to express it.


On December 20th 2009 it was exactly One year you departed this world,I flew out to Nigeria couple of weeks before the date to have a remembrance for you.It turned out very wonderful because I only told few people but a lot of people showed up including families,his friends and my friends.Shout Out to all those that came out,I cant just start calling names right now because you all know yourselves.I so much appreciate you for taking time out of your busy schedule.


I have been trying to set up a "Nosakhare Ikponmwonsa Usuanlele Foundation" (NIUF) that would be focusing on all victims of tooth/teeth infection around our community.I have promised to do it and I would still do it no matter how long its going to take.This foundation would go places and even give the less privilege scholarships to study around the world.Your legacy would still remain on earth and I would forever be proud of you because you ar a rare gem and One in a Million.I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND MISSED YOU FATHER !!!

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